preppy black dress Selena's Dazzling Night: Cut-Out Sequin Mini Large One size fits a 4 Ladies Collared Preppy Knitwear Maxi

I knew her older sister Emily from working at the Ralph Lauren store on Nantucket at age 16 and just happened to run into them in the Stop & Shop parking lot the summer before our wedding

Nothing poses a getting-ready quandary quite like black tie optional. Its vague and can result in guests wearing a hodgepodge of looks that are all over the map when it comes to levels of formality, Alexandra Macon, Vogue contributing editor and co-founder of wedding e-commerce site Over the Moon says

Standart sizes: XS

CHAMPAGNE: Height 5'9" / Bust 32" / Waist 24" / Hips 36.5"

A cocoa-colored leather jacket stands out against an inky-black undershirt and leather pants